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Opportuity for networking:

NJOD Annual Sharing Day May 7, 2009

As a member of the NJOD Lead Committee for the Annual Sharing Day, working on this year's program is as exciting as ever. This is a great opportunity to learn, to meet others, to network, and to enjoy a day with your peers.

Two wonderful keynote speakers are scheduled.  One of my all-time favorite people, Kenny Moore will open the morning session with a presentation on the changing role of OD in a turbulent and unforgiving business environment: "OD's Challenge: Offering Hope to a Wounded Marketplace". 

The afternoon keynote speaker is David W. Jamieson, Ph.D., who will speak on "Suppose We Took OD Seriously!", addressing how to use the essence of what makes OD,OD, to produce different work environments, outcomes and results with pride.

Professional events such as the programs offered by the NJOD are ideal networking opportunties for everyone.  Maintaining an active role in your professional community is not limited to the difficult times when you are between jobs or considering a career move -- networking keeps you in touch, opens unexpected doors and inspires new ideas and perspectives.

For those who haven't networked for a while, here are some tips you might find useful:

Networking tips for professional events:

Smile. Act approachable and be charming by stepping forward to extend your hand to shake.

Inquire.  Speak up and ask open-ended questions such as "What do you do?" with honest interest.

Listen.  Hear what the other person is saying through their word choice, inflection, and body language.

Respond. Show you are listening by offering an observation or by asking for further information.

Share.  Extend yourself by providing information or simply  being someone they can talk to.

Offer Support. Sincerity and generosity open channels to form relationships built on trust and respect.

Seek mutually beneficial relationships.  There is no need to make everyone your friend; explore the interest of others to find commonality.

Be Authentic.  Who you are will come through when you’re speaking to someone with similar values.

Carry business cards with you at all times!

For more information on the NJOD Annual Sharing Day, contact me at lucille@mtmanagement.net.  Bring plenty of business card to Network, Network, Network!!   I hope to see you there!

Also, if you are recently downsized and would like additional tips on how to use networking to find a new job, you might find the following article of interest: DON'T LET DOWNSIZING GET YOU DOWN!




 

October 03, 2008

The Praying Mantis: Instinctual Focus

A few weeks ago I attended an advanced management training to learn the decision making techniques of some of the most successful business leaders.  The emphasis of the program was on staying focused to achieve clarity in the decision making process. The business owners and corporate executives in the audience were lead through some deep breathing exercises, similar to the technqiues used in yoga and other meditative disciplines.

The premise is that by clearing our minds of the clutter, turning off the distractions and relaxing our bodies, our minds are more receptive to contemplative thinking. We are renewing our ability to make free associations, to allow our thoughts to explore different options, and test connections we might reject or overlook when under stress.  Good opinions cannot be rushed:  we must give ourselves time to consider alternatives.  

I recalled the program when I saw a Praying Mantis sitting on my porch. Best known for its ability to remove aphids and other harmful insects from plants, it had settled a few feet from my prize rose bushes, and I was pleased to have this natural protector of my plants from near-invisible tiny predators nearby. Fall has arrived: if these  rose buds were to be given a chance to bloom before the winter frost, the damage from the ravenous aphids had to be halted.

    I grabbed my camera and immediately thought of how remarkable it is to have a visit from this unique creature at this critical time.


Mantis #1 In the first photo, the mantis is sitting quietly soaking in the sun and looking in the direction of my rose bushes.  It was at rest, in neither fight nor flight mode.


Mantis #2 As I cautiously approached, it began to turn its head toward me, changing its field of vision as it took in the new addition to its environment. It lowered its body as if preparing to leap away.

Mantis #4

I stopped and while I remained unmoving, it relaxed its posture, continuing to keep its head turned toward me.


                       

Mantis #5 After about two minutes without movement, it turned to once again look toward the rose bushes. Returning to its primary occupation, did it forget that I was there or was itdistracted by a potential food source in the rose bushes?



Mantis #6



I walked in front of the mantis, moving to its other side before becoming still.  The movement brought renewed attention to me.This time its stare was less than a minute in my direction.

Unconcerned with me, in one smooth movement the Mantiis turned its head forward and leaped onto my rose bushes. By following its instincts the little Mantis performed a service that would allow the rose buds to open, providing color and fragrance for weeks to come.  A new crop of healthy roses will bloom to grace my doorway and welcome visitors before winter settles in and the bushes go dormant.

The moral of this little tale of the mantis?

Trust your instincts. Appreciate your strengths, both small and large. What you have to offer is of value. Focus on what is important.  Ignore the distractions. Be aware of what you need to do for yourself and change what you are capable of changing. Let others do for themselves what needs to be done: be available should they ask for help. 

Listen to your head and be guided by your heart.

And remember to stop and smell the roses. There is always time to smile, laugh and appreciate the simple joys!

To learn how MTM can help you make better decisions, build committed teams and inspire innovative contributions, contact us at www.mtmanagement.net/contact.html.  There is no cost or obligation -- let us share our experiences to support your next step.

July 16, 2008

Middle Managers… Featured in ASTD's T&D Magazine

This excerpt is taken from the article TIME IS ON THEIR SIDE, written by Dr. Maddalena and published in the December edition of ASTD's T&D Magazine.

            Middle management, comprised of first-line supervisors to associate-directors, is the largest and most powerful group of white-collar workers in the corporate sector. It is surprising to find that although middle-managers sustain the organization, many leaders appear to overlook or minimize the dynamic role of this integral group who:

            …represent a significant financial investment for a corporation in salaries, value of   output, production investment and maintenance expenditures.

            …experience continuing upheaval while being ignored, punished and blamed for  corporate excess.      

            …stand caught between career-driven senior managers and associates seeking   security.

            …fill the courts with workers’ complaints:  replacing unions with private counsel.

            …during their work life will transition between four to nine different careers

            …attract struggling women returning to work, experienced older workers, and young  entry-level college graduates.

            …enforce the culture, implement the systems, and present the firm to the world as the backbone of the company     

           

Leaders dedicated to building a sustainable organization incorporating long-term value to their strategic plans are wise to tap into the knowledge and experience of this group. Perhaps you can gain a glimmer of a new idea to harness the power of middle managers by considering my twenty years experience.

A PASSION

            Who are the middle managers that inhabit our corporations, small businesses and nonprofits today?  Take this little test to see if you fall into the ranks of this often-blamed and typically disenfranchised group:

(1) Are you charged with carrying out decisions made by upper management that affect the job responsibilities of the staff at a level below you?

(2) Is your position subject to dissolution during budget tightening, when quality performers tend to jump ship to prevent damaging their resume?

(3) Do you avoid risky situations such as taking action when you notice a dysfunctional area that could benefit from an intervention and change?

If you answered “yes” to all three questions, you are a middle manager.  It may not be a popular role in our success-driven society, but you are in the majority and among good company.

            For the past twenty years, beginning with graduate studies in Labor Education, I    have focused on this much-maligned group and found them not only fascinating, but an often untapped and underappreciated powerhouse that can make or break the success of any company.

            From knowledge professionals to managers at a food manufacturing plant, members of this morphing, impactful group represents all ages, backgrounds and nationalities  

                The question is:  do you consider yourself a part of Middle-Management?  If so, we would like to know how you view your role.  Please share any ideas you have on how we can better focus the enegery and resoucres of this critical segment of the workforce. How can companies be certain to maximize the investment in this flucturating reserve of reliable talent?

The following is the text of the article as submitted to ASTD's T&D Magazine:

               

Introduction to TRANSITION TO MANAGEMENT

            The TRANSITION TO MANAGEMENT series was first introduced to two global pharmaceutical firms in the early 1980’s. Since that time, over 6,000 executives at these firms have completed the on-going program, which has been well received at dozens of major and mid-size firms in North and South America.

            During the first two years of the program, the content was similar to offerings in most universities.  Seminar participants were recently promoted men assigned to attend the course.   Dressed in the corporate uniform of white shirt, dark suit and subdued ties, many had MBA degrees and previously attended corporate-sponsored seminars introducing management theory.  Reflective of the era, participant remarks were male-centric; sexist comments and inappropriate joking typically ended after the first hour of the seminar.

            By the third year of the seminar, corporate cultures and work environments underwent a revolution and the seminar found its heart.  Three major issues had a significant impact on class dynamics:

(1) New Leaders   “Cradle to grave jobs” became a thing of the past and unions became less powerful as white-collar jobs increased and participative management became popular.

(2) Seminar Participants. Corporate jobs were now temporary positions, horizontal growth prepared members to accept multiple jobs in their career and to meet changing job requirements.

(3) Building New Skills.  Technological evolution caused changed the way information is gathered and distributed.  Women join the workforce at all levels in search of leadership positions.

 New Leaders

            In the 1980’s the overriding complaint from employees was that the company had abandoned them:  ‘cradle to grave jobs’ were no more.   Many expressed feelings of isolation and uncertainty of their future.  The seminar provided a secure and confidential forum to tell their stories.  By sharing and listening, each member gained a broader perspective of the corporate environment and obtained the feedback necessary to find their place in the changing culture.

             It was during this period that unions were on the decline.  Upward mobility by assuming a white-collar job became a viable opportunity for more men and women.  Highly skeptical former union members were sent to training programs to prepare to accept positions of managerial authority. For many, this transition would mark them as the first member of their family to work in a white-collar environment. 

            Another group to seek entrance into the white-collar job market was women and members of ethnic and social minority groups. Affirmative action and diversity programs were developed to assist this group assimilate into the workforce.  For these individuals, successful transition into a middle-management job would change their lives and their family’s lives forever. 

            Once committed to the transition process, the participants wanted to jump in and succeed.  Inspired by their drive to quickly function on a level equal to or above the skill of current managers, sections on human relationships, power, and diversity were added to the course. The newly popular Participative-Style of management appeared tailor-made for this generation as a tool to develop trust between employee and manager.  Scenario-based videos, simulations and exercises proved the valuable by enabling prospective managers to test themselves, identify necessary competences, and develop personal models of success. 

Seminar Participants

            Workers quickly recognized that in the corporate world of the 1980’s the biggest revolution affected them directly:  their role and their work were temporary.  There was less upward promotion, with a push toward acquiring the horizontal growth necessary to prepare to work through multiple jobs during one’s career.

            Knowledge and relationships became the key to success. Who better to talk to than peers, colleagues and others who had learning experiences to share?  Group exercises, games, case studies and role-plays became essential tools to explore the background, perspective and experience of other group members.

            The best discussions took place among group members with the greatest variety of experience and skill levels.  I sought to mix members of different job levels, function areas, locales, and years with the company to bring in a wide range of perceptions and experiences. Attendee’s range from First–line supervisors to Directors: new hires, the newly promoted, those seeking promotion and managers who have worked for the company for more than ten years.

            Voluntary attendance required phone or Internet registration with a manager’s approval.  A few participants stated that they were told to attend by their boss or were obligated to satisfy a newly created succession plan. Personal motivations to select the course varied considerably with recent promotions being the most common.  The numbers of participants preparing themselves to request a promotion were about equal to the number of seasoned managers seeking a quick check to see “how I’m doing.”  More than twenty-five percent of the members of a typical class are highly technical or specialized individuals such as physicians, physicists, engineers, sales and IT people who may have some basic management training. 

Building New Skills

            Today, employers are losing post-war baby boomers as they retire from the workforce.  In the 1980’s these boomers were the talent firms needed to move into the next century.

            Technology eliminated the need for secretaries as word processing and personal computers heralded a new distribution of responsibilities. In the mid-1980’s, a significant number of women attend the TRANSITION seminars who were advancing from secretarial or administrative assistant positions, shifting discussion from the role of manager to the perception of others toward the a newly promoted manager.

            Classroom discussion often uncovered issues by men unhappy with the growing numbers of professional who felt that women were taking jobs away from “male breadwinners.” Traditional American male workers appeared to be a target, as women and minorities joined the workforce.

            In the classroom these social and cultural issues became apparent as the unaddressed undercurrent of performance and disciplinary issues.  By combining new hires with those seeking to update their skills, the environment provides a valuable opportunity to explore fundamental concerns.  Structured exercises and small group work encouraged a free-range of emotions, encouraging both dissension and humor to reveal universal commonalities.  Participants recognized the importance of building bridges, forming communication networks and preventing work in isolation.

            To enable participants to explore critical relationships issues, every session of a transitions program must be uniquely tailored to the needs of the current group members.  The goal must be focused on their success.  Every participant should be given the tools to develop confidence in their talent, the freedom to accept risk, and the skill to drive their personal plan to succeed. 

TEN-YEAR MARK

            By the time the seminar had been offered for ten years, the entire program had transformed into a dedicated individual and group development initiative.  The seminar administrator’s role has assumed the tasks of a coach more often than facilitator.   Most important to the seminar’s continued success is that the core concepts continued to provide a sound foundation offering current management and interpersonal communication concepts.

            The biggest adjustment was that the seminar was now offered as a two-day highly intensive and interactive session. TRANSITION TO MANAGEMENT I (TM1) is followed by six months of participant- initiated coaching and networking, then a one-day workshop titled TRANSITON TO MANAGEMENT II (TM2).

            The 100-page workbook created for the initial two-day seminar is updated every six to eight months to acknowledge talent’s changing role and maintain alignment with the organization’s development. Coaching during the interim period may include conference call between the administrator and several participants to uncover options that would best address the initiator’s need. To accommodate participant schedules, TM2, the one-day workshop, may have representatives from any earlier session of TM1.  Participants are welcome to repeat attendance at a TM2 workshop without charge at any time it is offered.

            As international firms grew into global enterprises, the participants reflected the growing corporate cultures.  Almost half the participants attending each session were employees of international origin who spoke English as a second or third language. New cultures, mores and relationships continue to be openly discussed as employees to share their personal stories.

TODAY

             Men and women from different nationalities, backgrounds, and experiences who have accepted the challenge to succeed as business professionals while balancing work and home life deserve a forum to test their skills while reviewing their knowledge.

            Programs such as TRANSITION TO MANAGEMENT are vital to encourage, assimilate and retain talented middle managers.  The most valuable resource we can give a potential new hire, the newly promoted, or a manager seeking to renew skills is to provide the tools to evaluate personal success.

            To sustain quality performance in our organizations, we must support those who are willing to take a risk by exposing them to what others have encountered.  Knowing what to anticipate, they can prepare for common events.  Accepting the transition as a dynamic phase of life gives them the confidence to work through the unexpected and exciting opportunities before them.

To learn how MTM can help you to support the development and contribution of your middle managers, visit http://www.mtmanagement.net/consulting-eCoaching.html

October 19, 2007

MAKING A SUCCESSFUL CAREER TRANSITION

WORKSHOP IN SELF-BRANDING 

by Dr. Lucille Maddalena   

            I recently offered a public workshop on Self-Branding and was asked to post the key points on this blog.  The workshop identified seven steps to develop your Personal Brand.  In response to many request, I will present one step each month on this blog. If you require additional information or would like to discuss your pesonal situation, contact us at:  www.mtmanagement.net/contact.html.

                   

IS A JOB CHANGE IN YOUR FUTURE?

Those who will benefit most from this presentation will be at one of the FOUR CAREER JUNCTURES: 

Ø  SEEKING A PROMOTION.  Are you ready to be promoted or feel you deserve to be better recognized for your work?  If you have been performing a task consistently or a while, it is easy to become “typecast”. It may seem as though invisible limitations are placed on you and you are seen in one role only.  Now is the time to show your many dimensions and let others know your full range of skills and interests.  You will have to take on tasks that others do not expect to see you perform and you must be able to present yourself as fully capable of assuming the new role. Your first step will be to show how the goals you have created for yourself align with the goals of the team, department, division and company.   

Ø  RECENTLY REASSIGNED OR RELOCATED. Have you been relocated or re-assigned within your company?  Don't think of it as a problem, consider it an opportunity and make the most of the move to re-establish yourself. Learn to take control of how you build your image within your new division or department by establishing effective work relationships with your team, co-workers and others that will influence your career.  Because new colleagues may not know much about your abilities, it is time to take a leadership role and show what you can do as someone that can inspire and motivate others.

Ø  A ‘NEW HIRE’. If you have recently gone through an on-boarding process, you will benefit from these skills as well.  If you are joining a new company, it is important that you present yourself in the way that you determine best. Working in a new environment and culture, learning the "in's and out's" of your new firm will take a while -- it is best that you know how to introduce yourself to others and to become a member of your new team. You will want to assimilate into the new group, learn the language (including popular abbreviations), and understand the pace of the group, how decisions are made, and what you can do to establish yourself both as a contributor and leader.

Ø  MOVING FROM TECHNICAL TO MANAGERIAL ROLE. This is probably the most difficult of the transitions listed.  It is not easy, but you can successfully negotiate the learning curve by paying attention to a few key points in self-branding.  You will need to pay attention to your relationships, how you express yourself, and the image you create.  Assuming the role of manager means that your satisfaction will no longer be from completing the task yourself, but from helping others succeed.  Managing requires a different skill-set than you used to complete a technical assignment: now you have to get the work done through others.  The biggest problem most new managers have is to accept the fact that those reporting to them are often unprepared to do the job as well as the manager can do it -- now your success depends on the success of others.

         

          WHY BRAND YOURSELF?

         

            Let's begin to explore self-branding by considering the question: Why Brand Yourself?  The answer is simple: if you don't define yourself, others will define who you are for you -- and you might not like what they have to say about you!

            In the book, NOW, DISCOVER YOUR STRENGTH by Buckingham & Clifton, the authors advise you to:

Create an image of yourself in the minds of others and avoid being "pigeonholed” by the limited perceptions of others.

You will also want to learn more about Gallup Internationals’ Research as I refer to their work again later in this blog.  See www.gallupjournal.com .

HOW DO OTHERS SEE YOU?

            To understand how others see you, consider how you remember them.  Try this: select someone you work with.  By simply bringing that person to mind, you have formed a visual image of them.  Typically we recall someone’s appearance, the way they dress, how they groom themselves, the colors and fashions they choose.  Once we have the visual image, we elaborate on it by adding motion, remembering the way they talk as well as their body language. These visual cues are part of the “image” we project to others.

            Now consider how you feel about the person you selected. Do you enjoy their company? Do you value them in a positive or negative light?  Our feelings are inspired by our personal beliefs about others.  Without really thinking about it, we form a judgment about that person as a consequence of an interaction or experience. That impression could be formed by something we saw them do or the way they reacted to something we did or said.  We formed an “impression” of the individual that will impact how we respond to that person.

CREATING YOUR OWN IMAGE AND IMPRESSION

            Before you can take charge of your personal image and create the impression you desire on others, you have to decide how you want others to see you. Often we do not consider the impact of decisions that determine our image, such as when we choose our wardrobe, or the impression we make when we speak, by using slang or unprofessional expressions.  To take control of how others see you, your task is to create an image and impression in the mind of others that presents you as you choose to be seen and accepted. 

 PREPARE YOUR MESSAGE

            

                  One of the most difficult things for all of us to do is to describe ourselves.  It is hard to find the right combination of words without appearing to brag or to show false humility. 

 

ASSESSING YOUR STRENGTHS

            

            When you are ready to prepare your own message, I recommend to those I coach that they use an assessment tool for an objective self-evaluation.  Most assessment tools ask you to complete about 100 to 250 questions, from which they will rate your responses to identify trends that indicate your interest, perspective and beliefs.            

            Using an assessment tool before you begin to prepare your message will provide a starting point in your self-critique.  You will learn what motivates you and gain a better understanding of why you are good at what you enjoy doing. The analysis itself will provide you with specific terms and phrases that accurately describe how you perform, what you are good at doing, and why you enjoy some tasks more than others. 

              To choose the best assessment tool for you, talk with your Coach or Human Resources Department. Of course, I have several I prefer to use and will gladly help you select the appropriate assessment for you: send a note at http://www.mtmanagement.net/contact.html.

            If you prefer, for the price of a book you can complete a personal assessment that is analyzed by Gallup International.  I often recommend STRENGTH FINDERS 2.0 by Tom Rath, as an excellent tool that uses the latest Gallup research to effectively identify your skills, talent and knowledge.

THE ELEVATOR SPEECH

There are many advocates of the ‘elevator speech’, that 30-second presentation that we must be able to recite at a moment’s notice, usually during an unexpected meeting. .

            No matter how good your ‘elevator speech’ is, it is just the start to your self-presentation.  You must be able to introduce yourself in greater depth and with clarity while engaging others in a mutually-beneficial conversation.

            

WRITING YOUR THESIS STATEMENT

            When I coach Senior Level executives, we work on what I call a “Thesis Statement”™.  A Thesis Statement™ is a concise self-description of less than 100 words that you can use to introduce yourself and begin to develop trust, rapport and empathy with others. It presents your personal theme by identifying your areas of interest and expertise in context of your current job and situation.

Here is an example:

            It is good to meet you.  I have been here for about two weeks now. I came from Terva. What impresses me most about the work you do here is the quality and of the analysis and the working environment. I want to join this team.  Right now I find the technical aspects requiring code recognition to be innovative and a more efficient process than the alignment factors I used before. I had an opportunity to work on a project that might provide some useful insight into the next phase while I was at Eisenhower University. I am looking forward to learning and enjoying my time here.  Any advice you can offer to get me on the right track is always welcome.”

                   You must speak for yourself:  express your passion and dedication.  Each of us has our own way of relating to an event and describing our emotions and commitment.  While some people are comfortable using expansive terminology, others prefer a more subtle expression of their feelings, opinions and observations.  Because this is very subjective, there is no wrong or right – one way may not always be better than another way of stating the very same fact.  What is important is that your statement ‘ring true’.  You must believe what you say and convey that honesty and commitment in your word choice as well as delivery.

            

For assistance to prepare your THESIS STATEMENT, contact us at www.mtmanagement.net/contact.html.             

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            As I repeatedly chant to participants in my seminar:  there is a strength and a weakness to everything.  I encourage those I coach and mentor to always look for both sides of the story: what are the pro’s of the situation and what are the con’s, meaning any concerns you may have for the event or next steps.

I’ve outlined many of the advantages to creating a brand for yourself, let’s take a minute to review some of the possible concerns: the areas you must watch out for to be certain you don’t go off-course and your presentation proceeds as planned.

CAUTION:  STAY IN THE PRESENT!

            The caution that we must face is a major one that has ruined the careers, reputations and relationships of many ‘new hires’:  whatever you do, please do not tell your new colleagues, associates, bosses and peers what you did and how you did it at your last job. 

            I recall meeting with a “new hire” that was about to begin his first day with a new firm.  He had a rocky history during his short career and this would be his third job in five years.  He had been downsized from this first job, which he had enjoyed and which he proudly recalled to anyone who would listen.  I wondered if his habit of reliving his prior job had anything to do with the fact that his second position had not lasted a full year.

            When we met I asked him to describe his feelings about beginning the new job.  His response was to quote the recruiter that had placed him by saying: “This job is mine to lose.”

            I stopped him immediately and requested that he repeat that comment several times with a key change in both the wording and passion:  This job is mine to embrace, to learn and to grow as part of a new team.”

            We all know that nothing is more annoying for a teammate than to have to listen to someone recall either wistfully or with regret their former job circumstances. No one wants to hear how wonderful your old job was or the way you did things there.

            For the most part, the typical response to hearing the glories of an old job is to wonder why the ‘new hire’ left and probably wish he or she was still at the former company.   It is interesting how we can screen unpleasant memories: that previous experience may not have been all that great, so let it go.  Instead of reliving the past, remind yourself that you are moving forward and seeking to become a respected member of a new team.

            Embrace the change and consider each new challenge an opportunity to grow and develop. When you begin to write your Thesis Statement™, be certain you are using ‘action’ words, not ‘passive’ words.  For example, if you want to explain that you worked on a project try composing your sentence to read: 

            I actively pursued an analysis of the results by gathering data

            secured from three years of research.”

Using action words will help your Thesis Statement™ project your image as well as create an impression on others.  It is a good idea to remember that this is their environment; you are the newcomer and it is up to you to learn how they do things.

 

USE COMMON LANGUAGE

            

            Let’s focus on the effort to combine all of the relevant key words and phrases you have identified to form a concise statement that is easy for you to say.  Forming the actual sentences is the real skill as the words you speak must flow in your everyday conversation style. The statement itself must be flexible: you may choose to use only a segment of it with one person, the entire statement with another.

            The art of preparing an effective Thesis Statement is to first understand your audience.  You must have a good idea of the other person’s interests, expectations and values: then show how your goals align with theirs.  If this is a difficult task for you, I have a soon-to-be released on-line program titled POSITION YOURSELF™ that will guide you through the process. For information on the POSITION YOURSELF™ program send me at note at   http://www.mtmanagement.net/contact.html.

            Learning to recognize and address the interests of your audience is vital to successful communications as well as establishing relationships. Communication is only effective when the receiver accepts the message and understands it as it was intended.  To be certain the person you are talking to is listening and willing to invest their time to continue to listen to you, you must recognize what is important to them and show that you care about their interests.

            Developing rapport and establishing relationships with others requires open, honest communication.  Sharing your perspective, history and experience is the first step to building a bond with others.

©L.Maddalena, 2007. All rights reserved.  Duplication, reproduction or distribution without authorization is strictly forbidden.  Properly documented quotations should include the reference: by L. Maddalena, see www.mtmanagement.net .